# north-star.txt - Vision, values, and decision tests. Part of the Expert set (see 1-constitution/constitution-expert.txt). # Char budget: keep under ~5000 characters. This file changes rarely; it is your compass. # Replace every [BRACKET]. The Sam Rivera content is fictional; delete it. === CENTRAL SENTENCE (everything answers to this) === "[YOUR ONE SENTENCE]" (example: A focused life where good work, real friendships, and steady health all hold at once.) === 3 PILLARS (run at the same time, every day) === | # | Pillar | Concrete picture | | 1 | [PILLAR ONE] | [what it looks like when it is working] (example: Body - train 3x/week, sleep 7h, energetic) | | 2 | [PILLAR TWO] | [what it looks like] (example: Craft - work I am proud of, paid fairly, clients who return) | | 3 | [PILLAR THREE] | [what it looks like] (example: People - a circle of 5 to 15 I keep up with on purpose) | Everything else in this system serves these 3, or it is not needed. === THE LOOP (how the pillars feed each other) === [Describe in one line how your pillars cycle.] (example: Body gives energy -> energy fuels good work -> work brings resources and freedom -> freedom protects time for people and rest -> back to body.) If one link breaks, the others lose power. === DECISION TESTS (run before any new commitment) === Gate test (precondition): - 0. Is this MINE, or am I trying to earn someone's approval? If not a clear yes, stop here. Then the checks: - [PILLAR ONE] test: does it help or at least not harm [pillar one]? - [PILLAR TWO] test: does it move me toward [pillar two]? - [PILLAR THREE] test: does it strengthen or at least not damage [pillar three]? - Character gate: can I do this with honesty and still respect myself? Logic: the gate comes first. The payoff should be proportional: either a big gain in one pillar or a general gain across all. === VALUES / CHARACTER COMPASS === Center: [YOUR CORE VALUE] (example: be a friend to myself) Outer 3: [VALUE], [VALUE], [VALUE] (example: kindness, integrity, courage) Background 3: [VALUE], [VALUE], [VALUE] (example: wisdom, fairness, moderation) === RESET RITUAL (when energy or discipline drops) === 1. STOP whatever the slide is (scroll, snack, doom-spiral). 2. VISION: re-read the central sentence above. Say thanks that it is coming closer. 3. SMALL WINS: name 1 to 3 small wins from this week that point toward it. Use it in the moment you feel yourself sinking, not mechanically every day. === THIS QUARTER'S FOCUS === Motto: [SHORT THEME FOR THE YEAR] (example: Build strength - in body, money, focus.) | Priority | What | Target | | P1 | [MAIN PRIORITY] | [measurable goal + date] (example: 2 retainers by 2026-09-30) | | P2 | [SECOND] | [measurable goal + date] | | P3 | [LIMITED] | [cap, e.g. 5h/week] |